Unless you have been living under a rock, you have seen the term BDE floating around the internet the last few years. It all started with Ariana Grande’s claim that her then-boyfriend Pete Davidson was packing a 10-inch penis.
Twitter users collectively applied the term “big dick energy” to Pete Davidson as a way to describe his cool confidence. But how can you tell if someone has BDE? And how can you get it?
We are breaking it all down, including the link between satisfaction with your penis size and your overall confidence.
What Does BDE Mean?
Big Dick Energy is the epitome of modern masculinity. It can be hard to define, but there are some unequivocal characteristics:
Confidence Over Arrogance
Confidence is the key to BDE. It isn’t the bullying, alpha-male masculinity of the past. There is no superiority, no sense of egotism. A man with big dick energy feels good in his own skin and doesn’t put a lot of stock in what others think about him.
Charismatic
All that confidence leads to magnetic charisma. BDE gives a man charm, poise, and an easy vibe of competence socially, professionally, and personally. Men and women both want to be with him because it’s fun, easy, and satisfying. They feel better about themselves just by being around him.
Thoughtful
Part of having BDE is making other people feel special. Remembering people’s names shows BDE. A man with BDE will make sure everyone is having a good time and will smoothly shut down any behavior that ruins the right vibes.
An Expert at Reading the Room
Whether it’s a business meeting or a date, a man with BDE knows exactly what to say, how to say it, and what kind of response to expect. He is always cool, calm, and collected because he pays attention to how other people feel, rather than being concerned with what they think about him.
Self-Care
Obviously, a man with BDE takes excellent care of himself. From his personal style to his hygiene, he makes sure to look and feel his best. Sure, he might dress to the nines when it’s appropriate, but he can be casually cool with an effortless look too. Importantly, he doesn’t do this to get attention or compliments. Rather, he cares for his health, skin, hair, teeth, and clothes to feel better about himself. He may not have the body of an athlete or the face of a movie star, but the care he puts into his appearance is the true sign of BDE.
Simmering Sexual Appeal
Instead of being overtly sexual, a man with BDE has a subtle sexual pull created from the combination of his confidence, charm, and self-care. It’s in his comfortable vibe, his thoughtful questions, and his self-confidence.
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Is Big Dick Energy Real?
Not surprisingly, there is a demonstrated link between a man’s satisfaction with his penis size and his overall confidence. We can see evidence of this in the Psychology of Men & Masculinity study entitled “Does Size Matter? Men’s And Women’s Views On Penis Size Across The Lifespan.”
In this study, researchers asked men and women questions about penis size, sexual satisfaction, and self-confidence. The results were pretty clear: men who reported a larger-than-average penis also rated their overall appearance most favorably. This suggests a possible link between confidence and perceived large penis size.
In another Psychology of Men & Masculinity study, researchers saw an additional link between perceived penis size and overall confidence. There were significant relationships between penile dissatisfaction and comfort with others seeing their penis, even if their penis size was within average range.
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These studies explain why a man who is unhappy with the size of his penis is unlikely to feel better just because he has “normal” size. Even if his sexual partners tell him his penis size is fine for them, he needs to feel happy about it himself to enjoy real self-confidence.
Who Has Big Dick Energy?
Being a celebrity does not automatically give a guy big dick energy. However, there are some celebrities who we can all agree have BDE:
- Pete Davidson, the original face of BDE.
- Harry Styles has the confidence to wear whatever he wants, subverting traditional men’s styles and showing tons of BDE.
- Idris Elba’s smooth confidence and easygoing friendliness are definitely BDE.
How Do I Know If I Have BDE?
If you have big dick energy you might not even know it. Ironically, having BDE means you likely aren’t concerned about having it. However, here are some signs that you have big dick energy:
- People look to you for advice on everything from business to style to romance
- You influence your friends without trying to
- Your flirting style is based on self-confidence
- You can easily laugh at your own mistakes, rarely taking them seriously or letting them affect your confidence
While every man wants big dick energy, guys who have it don’t need to state it. Ironically, claiming to have BDE is a pretty good way of losing it. It isn’t something that can be measured, instead, it’s all about other people’s perceptions of you.
Can I Get BDE?
Since big dick energy relies on self-confidence, the best way to get BDE is to work on feeling better about what you offer. Take care of your body, health, and hygiene. Kick up your personal style a notch. Do what you can to feel better about what you bring to relationships, including sex and romance.
If you lack confidence in conversation and flirting, make yourself a more interesting person. Read books or take up a hobby. Practice makes perfect, so put yourself in situations where you can chat up new people.
Sexual confidence is an important part of any relationship, so learn how to bring that energy into the bedroom. Change the way you groom yourself, make it a priority to learn about satisfying your partners sexually (pro tip: don’t rely on porn to show you how), and get comfortable having honest discussions with your sexual partners.
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